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Loving Relationships are Healthy Relationships

Relationships are the most important features in all of our lives.

Loving relationships positively impact our physical and mental health. If we knew how to create healthy, respectful and loving relationships with each other, we would all do it.

Healthy and secure relationships allow us to thrive, to flourish, to grow. They are our safety net in an ever-changing life.

We are meant to grow and evolve and our most intimate relationships help us to do just that. If they are healthy and respectful …


Break Up with Codependency

Love with Clarity aims to rid you of limiting beliefs about relationships and clear up culturally reinforced confusions about what healthy relationships are.

You can find your way out of codependency or emotional avoidance and unavailability and learn to create healthy, loving, respectful and mutually beneficial romantic relationships.

Even if you never had a healthy and secure functioning role model or you bear attachment trauma from living through frightening and harmful experiences, you can create a healthy romantic relationship.

It is not impossible for you. Attachment injuries and attachment trauma no longer have to hold you back.

You can step out of codependency and into the realms of healthy and loving human relating.


It Is Time to Love with Clarity

You may have spent your life craving connection and intimacy but now is the time you can make this come true. The wait is over.

It is time to clear up all confusions about romantic relationships, love and intimacy.

It is time to adopt new ways of being, connecting, relating, loving and living.

Love with Clarity will help you with doing so.

Your suffering and hopelessness can be distant memories of the past.

Your time to Love with Clarity has begun.



Goodbye, Fantasy Relationship

At the end of a relationship we often wonder what went wrong. We try to figure out what happened. We...

Emotional Safety: The Main Ingredient of Healthy Relating

A healthy relationship requires a solid foundation of trust. Trust emerges when we feel emotionally safe. In order to feel...
Equality in Relationships

Why The Sacrifice Of Self Is Not An Act of Love

  We live in a world in which most people strive to earn or experience love while completely misunderstanding what...
Sexual Rejection

The Pain of Sexual Rejection

Most adults are fully connected to their sexual needs, which is something healthy and natural. When we choose to be...
Sexual Bids

Bids for Sexual Connection

Drawing on Gottman, bids for connection are an attempt by one partner to elicit attention, affirmation, affection and any other...
Three's A Crowd

Are Opposite-Sex Friends a Threat to Our Relationship?

Committing ourselves to a monogamous relationship does not mean forfeiting the experience of being friends with people of the opposite...
What Love Is Not

What Love Is Not

Sometimes we love someone and are in a relationship with them that is built on hope. Hope for change. Hope...
Secret or Private

Secret or Private? On Openness in Relationships

As healthy romantic relationships progress and trust is earned, we eventually open up more and more. And while boundaries are...
Value Not Use

Love Means To Value, Not Use

As human beings we have an innate drive to value and also like to feel valued. When we grow up...
Sex and Attachment

The Impact of our Attachment Styles on our Sex Lives

When Sex Is More Than Just Sex: How Attachment Style Affects Our Sex Lives For most healthy adults sex is...